What Can You Do? Make the Call

When you hear these words?
Life is not worth living . . .
I have nothing to live for . . .
What’s the use of going on . . .
I might as well end it all . . .

Words matter. These comments may be a way to just vent or they could mean something much more serious. Below are steps that may helpful for you to consider if someone you know makes statements that concern you.

1. LISTEN.
2. Take the comment SERIOUSLY.
3. If possible guide the person to a private location.
4. Say, “Let’s talk about this. I’m concerned about what you said.”
5. Ask for clarification: “What did you mean by that comment?”
6. Stay focused on the issue.
7. If the threat appears imminent, call 911.
8. Offer to assist the person. Say, “I’d like to call the EAP right now.” 
9. Make the call, speak to the EAP, and put the person on the line.
10. In the days after the incident, follow up with the person by asking, “How are you?”

 This may have been a very difficult situation to deal with; consider calling the EAP for your own self care.